WAKE HIM UP !
Fellow Toastmasters & distinguished guests, if you have any doubts on what your answer to that question should be, then I’m addressing the right audience…..because today I’m going to tell you a story…not just an ordinary story……it’s the story of TAYLOR MORRIS…
Who is Taylor Morris ?
He was a young boy in Iowa City, United
States, whose childhood dream was to join the US Navy. Through his determination and hard work, this dream eventually came
true in 2009, when he graduated as an explosive detection and disposal expert
of US Navy.
Taylor was like me, I mean handsome :D ,
had his dream job, and with a beautiful girl friend, Danielle Kelly, he had
everything in his life, that a man could ask for…..But life had other
ideas…it was not kind to allow this happiness to flow smoothly like 'a leaf in a
creek'….Taylor was deployed to Afghanistan in January 2012. And one fateful day,
on 3rd May 2012, during a search operation for explosives, Taylor accidentally
stepped on a bomb........ Boom ! He was thrown in the air, and hit the ground
hard with fatal injuries…He could only remember his colleagues rushing to him to
check whether he is still alive…..after a short while his whole world went
blank….
His first sight brought a smile to
his face… because it was the sight that his eyes enjoy the most in this world….Danielle.
She was right beside him. She kissed him gently and caressed his shoulder. ' Taylor
felt awkward '…because whenever they met each other, Danielle’s first reaction was
to grab his hand and interlock her fingers with those of Taylor’s right hand. When she caressed his shoulder instead, he sensed that
something was not right… So he moved his head to check on his right hand…..To
his great shock, there was no right hand.... He realized what would have happened and wanted to see the total extent of damage
he had suffered. So he asked Danielle to remove the blanket that covered him. When
the blanket came off inch by inch, Taylor Morris did not want to believe what his
eyes were showing him…' he was no different from a piece of wood '. His loss was
not only his right limb, but all four of them. His whole world crumbled in front of his eyes within a
matter of seconds.
Toastmasters, ' Life at times can knock you down flat on your back....but it’s not the knock downs that matters, rather it is what you do after the knock down which defines who you are & how strong your character is !
At this juncture in our story, having seen his body, or whatever is left of it, from that hospital bed, "Taylor took a decision that brought me on this stage today….” he decided wipe off those tears from Danielle’s eyes.......he decided to rise from the ashes like a phoenix........and most of all….Taylor Morris declared war against his fate !
From that day onwards, he started a
mission, 'to reclaim a normal life back, for him & for Danielle'…time passed by very slowly..…due to his sheer
determination, never-give up attitude and strong will, Taylor was making rapid progress in his recovery phase and was transferred from hospital ward to rehabilitation.....Meanwhile Danielle, was
right beside him like a shadow, in every step of the way..…helping, motivating
and picking him up whenever he was down....
After a few more months of painfully
slow but demanding rehabilitation, Taylor received some good news for a change.....Impressed by
his progress, the doctors decided to test artificial limbs on Taylor…The legs
were fixed, first the right & then the left....Taylor was so eager to attempt the
first steps in his second life.
But life…..was not done, playing games with him….! In trying to walk Taylor seriously aggravated one of his internal wounds and the doctors decided that the remaining structure of his body is not strong enough to take the stress of artificial limbs. It was like the end of the road in his recovery…. Danielle was devastated, but not Taylor…." he had mission to finish ", and was prepared to conquer any challenge that was thrown in his way…even after this great setback, Taylor was not prepared take his foot off the gas and started working out even harder with a fresh energy…..
After a few more weeks of sweat,
tears & pain, Taylor reached a milestone…'the target physical condition the
doctors have set for him'…Doctors who were stunned with Taylor’s guts decided to
give him a second chance…artificial limbs were fixed once more…and this time, faced
with never fading determination, ' fate had to accept defeat….' Doctors
couldn’t believe their eyes.....Taylor Morris had completed a medical miracle.....The
person whom they thought would never move again by himself, was walking ecstatically along
all corridors of the hospital, grinning from ear to ear like a child……' just
like a bird who has learned to fly for the very first time '….and Danielle……was drowning in tears of joy…...tears of overflowing joy…why not ?…Her fiancee is back on his feet !
Ever since then, Taylor Morris became an icon for never give up attitude and strong will power. Taylor lost his arms & legs...we may or may not go through a similar ordeal, because you never know what life has in store for us...So, if someday life knocks you down, do not accept it as your fate..If Taylor could win his life back from that hospital bed..why can't you ?